In life, sometimes you tend to think about others before yourself. You will do everything that you can to help others especially the ones that you really care about. The intention is simple. You want to make that other person(s) happy. If she/he/they happy, you'll feel happy too. It seems like a win-win situation for both party then..
All my life, I've always been that person. It is my nature to be nice to everyone, to help whoever that in needs of my service(s), make a decision that will benefit everyone (not just myself) and care about other people's feelings above myself. I managed to be this person when I was growing up. It's just so easy to please everbody back then, I guess.. hehehe..However as life goes on, when your life has a broader perspectives than just passing your exams or/and finished your educations and just being surrounded with your family and friends, it becomes harder to please everybody. It's hard to make a decision that will benefit you at the same time benefit others as well. It's hard to help this 1 person and at the same time, help thousand of others. At one point, you will not have the self capabilities and resources to do everything to everyone.
It's hard when I know that I had dissappointed somebody of my doings. I feel sad if I can't help this person(s) although technically, I should. I feel bad when I know that I'd moved on at other people's loss. I can't bear to know that I made people mad at me, hate me and/or think I'm selfish. However, what I can only say is that.. "I'm sorry, people..I can't make everyone happy"
Anggun, sorry, but i cant help menyibuk kat your blog. Funny, but i was feeling the same today. Partly because i am like u, dont like it when people have negative thoughts about me eventhough they may not be true and partly because i am having my pms hehe...
ReplyDeleteanyway, we are no angels.. we are only humans where some things are beyond our control. As long as we have done our best to help others and have made attempts to make others feel good, (eventhough it may not be successful all the time) we should be able to sleep well at night kan? orang lain belum tentu lagi cuba nak gumbirakan kita kan? hmm.. i dont know whether i'm trying to make u or ME feel better! hehe.. ;D
errr... did i manage to make u feel better? :P
yeah.. kdg2, kita dah usaha habisan utk membuatkan org senang dgn kita.. kita jaga hati org sampai hati sendiri tak terjaga..
ReplyDeleteada situasi yg sampaikan kita terpaksa bersikap pentingkan diri sendiri.. tp itu yg lebih penting.. jaga hati sendiri..sampai bila nk sedapkan hati org lain sampai kita sendiri terkorban.
**skema plak komen i.. :)
indeed...
ReplyDeleteimah dear, don't worry, it is not 'selfish' to let your feeling towards yourself as your priority... nak jaga hati orang is not easy..
u just take care! bila mau minum2 kopi nih? hehehee..meh la datang rumahh
oren: yeah.. u did help me feel better..kire boleh tido lena sikitla.. :p
ReplyDeleten u're welcome to menyibuk here anytime..hehehe
mizi: bukan u mmg skema ker? :p
dikla: weekend ni jugak imah dtg..ready jela kopi n mknannyer..hehehe..